Healthy Leads to Healing: My Testimony

Allergies have always hindered me from enjoying this beautiful earth. I enjoy doing things outside but my allergies were always a thorn on my side. I would always have to carry around tissue, which was gross. I could not go anywhere with it. I depended on tissue like it was a million dollars. Not only was the tissue annoying but I talked like I was an operator 24/7. I had to take medicine every night just to breath. The medicine would make me so tired the next day as well as dehydrated. I would be miserable at job only to restart the cycle over again. I went to an allergist who said I was allergic to everything that grows. I started getting allergy shots but those were horrible. Getting stuck twice a week on my lunch break was not how I wanted to spend the next two years of my life. After two months of no improvement I stopped doing the shots. I began to pray and read scriptures on healing. I received peace that God was going to heal me. However I did not change my bad, unhealthy habits. I was not working out, I was not eating healthy nor was I taking vitamins. I was praying and believing but there was more God wanted me to do. I had to do my part. I began to workout and eat healthier. I stood on God's promist that I was going to be healed. I kept pushing to take care of my self. Slowly but surely I saw my health improve. Now I can say I am health and healed byt the grace of God. If you are looking for healing believe and receive that God is a healer. You also must take care of yourself. Be healthy spiritually and physically. The two combined will lead to a health lifestyle.

How to Overcome Loneliness in Marriage

Being married is the best gift on earth, is what bride and grooms think on their wedding day. Ask this to a married couple who have been married a year but can not seem to connect on anything. Their answer will probably not be marriage is a gift, but the opposite. They feel lonely in the marriage.

Loneliness in the marriage can be resolved not by cheating or arguing but by working. Anything you want to be great takes work. Make an effort to spend more time with your spouse. If he/she is in a room watching a television show you don't particularly like, go watch it anyway. Don't just watch it but cuddle, fix snacks, do something to get involved. Spend time talking about each other's day before going to sleep. Talk about plans for the next day or the next week. If your spouse is interested in something you do not know that much about, learn it. It is a good way to keep conversations open. Just because you are married does not mean you and your spouse are always going to have the same interest but there is nothing wrong with being able to have a conversation about the interest. If the spouse is hesitant to work on helping you feel not so lonely, try to find your own interest.

Remember, you are still an individual. Yes you and your spouse become one but you are unique. Start doing things that you like so that your spouse will take interest in you. Share it with your spouse. This will actually give more conversation with your spouse as you exchange interest. Remember, to love your spouse but do not expect them to be perfect. They are human, they will not always be there to fulfill your every void. When this happens depend on true love that comes from God. His love will never return void. When you put God's love first, everything else will fall into place. The loneliness in your marriage will not seem so lonely, then you will begin to find your interest. You spouse will be happier also because as you begin to put God's love first, pray for your relationship with your spouse. God will honor your prayers then watch your marriage improve.

How to Keep the Fire Burning in Marriage

Sex is everywhere for single people. It is easy access with the help of social media. Are single people the only ones who have sex? What happens to sex when people get married?

It seems like once people say I do, honeymoon for a few months, the sex is over. The sex can become like a chore instead of intimate enjoyment with the spouse like it was in the single days. When sex becomes like a chore in a marriage it will start to be boring and frustrating. The passion is lost.

Eventually the married couple will stop having sex. The temptation to get sex outside of marriage becomes strong.

How to keep sex in the marriage:

 -Talk about needs and fantasies. 

Likes and dislikes. However timing is everything. Do not wait until it is time to be intimate, talk about it before. Talking about is also a form of fore play to get in the mind set of having sex.

 -Research. 

There is nothing wrong with kinkiness in the bedroom while married. Single people should not be the only ones having wild sex especially since sex was created for married people as a form of intimacy to become one. Get kinky by researching positions and other options to bring to the table to spice up the mood.

-Change of environment, not the person. 

Be spontaneous. After the kids are in bed and the spouse is watching television on the couch, get intimate in the living room. There is nothing wrong with having spontaneous to spice it with an anytime, anywhere attitude. Scheduling sex can sometimes kill the mood. Last but not least enjoy. Enjoy each other's bodies. Enjoy the time spent together in a private moment, expressing the passion toward each other physically.

Your Purpose is in Your Passion

Look for what you are passionate for and it will lead you to your purpose. I have heard many stories of people who quit their 8 to 5 money making job to start their own business. Even though the job was a stable income people still quit because they were miserable. They wanted something more out of life.

 By no means am I suggesting everyone quit their job but sometimes you have to move backwards, adjust then move forward. They discovered a passion for something and went for it. It might be hard at first but if your passionate about it you will stick with it.

How to know what you are passionate about? Ask yourself, what is the one thing that I can do for free and not get drained from doing? Whatever it is, that is what you are passionate about. For example, if you are the person who can stay in the gym all day, not just working out but also helping people then that is the passion. You can become a personal trainer and maybe start your own fitness business. Because you are passionate about working out, you will become an expertise and be able to have a successful career.

I am a firm believer that God places something in each of us unique. Do not be afraid to persue your passion. Your passion is the key to unlocking your purpose which will lead to a fulfilling, happy life.